Become a better friend
Be Present
As human beings, we are wired for connection. The relationships we form with those we love are the foundation of a meaningful and fulfilling life. To cultivate and nurture these relationships, it's important to lean into the moments shared with our friends. It's an art of physical and conscious communication that adds value to our lives. When we are fully present with our friends, we become aware of each other's desires and burdens and share the pleasure of filling the connection with love and empathy for one another.
Don’t Judge
We are all unique in our own way, with our own set of experiences and perspectives. But despite these differences, one thing that we all share is the feeling of invalidation when we are judged. So why do we insist on judging others, especially those we love? Let us learn to embrace our relationships with kindness and empathy, without casting judgment. Judgments only reveal our self-criticism and break the chain of connection between ourselves and those we care about. Instead, let us choose to listen and validate our friends' concerns, even if we may not fully understand their perspective. Let us become the accepting friend, who fosters trust and builds stronger bond. Remember, a little kindness can go a long way in strengthening our relationships and making this world a better place.
Show up
Have you ever noticed how certain moments seem to stick with us forever? It's not usually the mundane things, like what we had for lunch as kids, that we remember vividly. Instead, it's the moments when someone showed up to celebrate or support us, or when we stood by someone in their time of need. These moments are etched into our hearts because they carry with them a profound sense of value and connection. Let us strive to be intentional in our actions and show up for our loved ones, even in the small moments. It is in these everyday moments that we have the power to make a lasting impact and strengthen the bonds that connect us all.
[ Friendship is not just a social construct, it's a bond that transcends time and space. When we are present in our friendships, we create a learning ability to set our concerns aside and let others carry us as we carry them. With each passing moment, we discover an undeniable love connection that becomes eternal. So let's not take our friendships for granted. Let's cherish them, nurture them, and allow them to flourish. For it is through our friendships that we can experience the beauty and wonder of life ]